Pytanie #1:

Who wins and who loses?

If I have my sanity and I don't have to deal with someone that is a co-dependent, alcoholic, narcissistic, master manipulator, wouldn't you think that I was the winner?

No one knows my side of the story or what I deal with. Narcissists are very disappointing as gift-givers. First, narcissists lack empathy, so they don't know what you want or like and, evidently, they don't care either; second, they think their opinions are better and more important than anyone else's, so they'll give you what they think you ought to want, regardless of what you may have said when asked what you wanted for your birthday; third, they're stingy and will give as gifts stuff that's just lying around their house, such as possessions that they no longer have any use for, or -- in really choice instances -- return to you something that was yours in the first place.

Why is it that people attempt to bend the truth, manipulate and lie to get their way? Why do people run around telling others that no one takes care of them, which is a lie, only to attempt to get others to feel sorry for them, so that they can now manipulate a whole other set of people?

So if I don't have a house that is falling down around me, a man that thinks I am supposed to be there at his beck and call and jump through hoops, someone so full of anxiety that you can not leave the room without him yelling and screaming wanting to know where you are and what you are doing, WHO WINS?

If I don't have to deal with 84 years of dysfunction and lies and manipulation and this person is going to die SOON, aren't I the one that WINS.

I think so.

Pytanie #2:

My cat seems to be mad or sad all the time and doesn't want to interact with her younger sister cat or others.?

My cat doesn't let me pick her up and love her. She only jumps on my lap when she wants love and attention. She runs away when I come up to her and also when other people come to her. She seems angry all the time. She doesn't do anything bad she just hisses at people. I rescued her off the street when she was about 6 weeks old. When she was a kitten she slept on my bed from day one and she is now 5 years old and still sleeps on my bed at night. But most of the day she stays away except when she wants me to love and pet her. She will stay on my lap for a long time, until something or noise startles her. She has a little sister cat, who is 3 years old, but doens't want to play or interact with her at all. The younger one wants to engage with her and is very sweet, but the older cat is bothered by her. What can be the problem with my older cat. Thank You

Pytanie #3:

Help? I NEED IMMEDIATE RESPONSES?

I have these random 'dots' all over my body.
(Mostly on my legs and bikini area)
They look like theyre going to pop!
I thought they were bug bites because I was camping, but they're 'popping' and thats not normal for bub bites...
What could this be? How can I treat it? How long will it take?
Please help me ASAP

Picture of one thats going to burst soon ;P -
(the one on the left is the worst)
<<thats my leg>>
Click Here

I dont know... like I went in the woods to get fire wood... but I didnt seem to go into anything high or anything... and I also jumped off of a bluff into sand. How could I have gotten this?

PLEASE ANSWER ASAP. I NEED ALL THE HELP I CAN GET

*****Maybe is this an allergic reaction? I am only aware that I am allergic to pennicilin
Well, if I go see a doctor they might tell me its something simple that I could have treated on my own, thus my money going in the garbage.

I was just wondering if there was anyone who might know what this was so I can try something before hand.

Pytanie #4:

WDYT of my story so far (it's short)?

Tell me what you think, what I can improve on, if it interests you, etc.

It was exhilarating, jumping off the Edge.
Jumping a thousand times over but never falling. Killing yourself a million times without ever dying. It left me giddy with the thrill of it all, breathless with its glory.
To me, it was like a drug. I was always wanting more, needing the brilliant feeling of that sudden bliss. I was well aware of the illegality of it, how it violated all rules of the Highest, and that if caught I would no doubt face death.
But I couldn’t stop. Even that one horrid night, with every corner of Ayar crowded with hundreds of Patrols, I found myself surrounded by those ebony trees I knew so well as I made my way to the Forbidden.
Maggie's voice was shaky and hesitant when she spoke from behind. “Can we stop for a sec’?”
The night air felt cool on my sweaty skin. I breathed it in, trying to absorb its tranquility. “Not enough time. Have to keep moving if –”
“Just for a minute,” she said. The weak tone in her voice was enough to make me stop, but I couldn’t quite make myself turn around. My gaze lingered on the horizon in deep longing. I sighed, reminding myself that it can wait, and turned around to face my sister.

Pytanie #5:

What could this dream mean? Need best answer!?

I went at the park that I was playing when I was little. It was a really sunny day and I went at the swing to play a little, even if I am older now. Suddenly I felt dizzy and I left the park, changing destination. My parents were along me, even if I do not have a good relationship with, and I told them that I wanted a certain Barbie doll. Funny, because the dream so far is childish.

Anyways, the scene changed and I was at some place where suddenly some men came and they asked me to go with them. I denied at first, but then they took me by force and they pulled me into some big vehicle like a bus. After awhile, the vehicle stopped and they procceeded out where two of them were holding me. We had arrived to some place like a wasteland-desert and from now on we had to ride a car. Not all of those men came, only the leader and two more if I remember correctly. I sat behind with a black-haired man next to me; He looked dark, but so familiar at the same time, like I knew him from before. I began talking with him but I cannot remember what we said to each other... But we felt drawn to each other and we began kissing. He said that he loved me, even if we knew each other for so little, but I was still feeling that I knew him from the past. The others in front did not noticed, so suddenly I jumped from the car and I fell near some fire. If I was fell closer I would be burned but the dark-haired man saved me and told me to not try such reckless actions. The leader approached us and he was angry that I tried to escape but the dark-haired man stood in the middle to face him. He began fighting him with a sword and by accident I fell onto a cactus and my coat was full of spines. I tried to take them out and somehow I got a long sword and I went to attack to the leader.

Afterwards the scene changed, I was back at home. It was night and my parents were watching TV, while I was holding my cell waiting for the dark-haired man to contact me. Suddenly I received a message from some other dude that in reality he was after me, telling me that he wanted to meet me and have 'fun'. I was pissed and later I went back at that wasteland area to search about the dark-haired man but he was nowhere. I was calling out for his name several times but nothing happened.

I know long, but what could it mean? Thanks.

Pytanie #6:

What should I do next time?

So yesterday was my birthday and I went to his watch store to get my new watch fixed, the girl working there was really cute and the the guy that was taking the links out came out and was like hey man watsup and shook my hand, I have no idea why. They didn't charge me either, but they did the lady in front of me. So the guy comes out and asks me how old Im turning I say 19, and hes like oh shes 19 too, meaning the cute girl. And shes like ya, I just turned last month.We really hit it off and I cut it short and was like I gotta go, and shes like where, and I said back to school, cuz I live in a different city during the week but come home every weekend. So the guy was like, hey shes looking for a bf, and she like blushed and laughed and was like no im not. Long story short, I have to go back there to get another link taken out because my watch is solid gold and it is really hard to not break a pick when you are fixing it. I mean I told her to hit me up on facebook, but why would she?

What should I do when I go back there? nothing? go somewhere else? leave my cell number with the guy if shes not there? I guess I didn't give her my number then and there because I have been hurt alot in the past and didn't want to just jump right into going out with a new girl.

Pytanie #7:

OK - most important gender question of the day...?

It amuses me that my Bearded Collie named Jack (a long-haired, fuzzy mid-sized British herding dog tat looks just like my now-deceased Beardie named Rowdy) jumps on my bed in the morning and stomps on me till I get up.

My wife, however, thinks differently.

So the question is, do men and women think differently about dogs stomping on them in the morning? Do you like your dog to jump on the bed in the morning to wake you up, or not? And are you a man or a woman?

Keep in mind that this is a deep and serious question - so please be honest for the sake of posterity (as the evil 2nd in command said to the Dread Pirate Roberts in the Princess Bride).
Edit: Nice pic, Serena - very nice!

Pytanie #8:

Should I do track, what do you do in track, & is there a lot of running?

I am in 8th grade & am not very athletic. I have 45 min to 1 hr P.E. classes every other day (2 or 3 times a week) so that's all the exercise I get. My mile times are around 9 minutes...

*If you happen to know, what's the AVERAGE time for a 13 year old female? I Googled it & could never find the right answer.

My mile times last year started at 11, cut to 10, then cut down to 9 :) I know that still sucks but oh well!

I wanted to join cross-country last year but my parents didn't turn the forms in correctly so I couldn't participate in any sports :( My family is pretty athletic & bugged me about trying out but I couldn't. I think I got my unathleticness from my mom because she didn't do any sports in her younger days.

Track has no cuts so there must be people that suck with running out there & I won't be the only one. I hope there are because I don't want to be humiliated.

*What do you do in middle school track? Hurdles, sprints, long jump, etc.?

*I go to Punahou (okay, I know I should be super good at sports but I'm the complete opposite) if that helps. Is there a lot of running? Like less than cross-country, right?

I think I'm fine with running short distances, although I've never really tried it. I have long legs so I can sprint -- it's just that after a while my lungs get tired & want to quit. I have trouble with breathing steadily. If you've taken track in middle school, what's the most you've ever run?

This seems stupid but I'm afraid of balls so I can't do any sports that involve hitting, kicking, throwing, or catching balls! So according to my conditions & mile times, do you think I should do track? I really want to because you get a free shirt that you can only get when you join track, along with a "P" (for Punahou) stitchy thingy. Sorry this was so long... I really hate sports but my mom said I HAVE to do something, take advantage of all the opportunities... respectful answers please, thank you :)

Pytanie #9:

what bike should i get?

im a beginner at buying a bike my friends have gotten me to buy a BMX bike im not new to BMXing though. i was a bike that is light strong and i will not need to buy parts for for a long time. i also want a bike that is a good bike right out of the box. i will be doing mostly street with a occasional dirt jump with my friends. i am looking to spend no more than $350 and i prefer to have it from danscomp (because i know there a reliable place) and if you have any coupon codes that would be great too! im looking at either the subrosa tiro or the subrosa salvador.

Pytanie #10:

Introducing puppy to other house dogs?

Hi i have currently 3 border collies male almost 2, female 3 and female 4-5. we just got a rottweiler puppy yesterday 16 weeks old male pedigree. We brought pup home and put him in crate with his bed and let our dogs separately 1 by 1 come and see pup in cage and have a sniff. The female age 2 seemed happy wagging tail and sniffing she gets along with all dogs and people she just a big pup her self, we took her away and brought in the 2nd dog male and he is a nervous dog anyway and he wasn't very sure he went to the cage and was stiff and showing teeth as the puppy was jumping about the cage trying to get to the dog, we took him away then brought in the alpha dog female age 4 and she was sniffing and growling a wee bit, it was a short introduction.
We then put all dogs on leads including pup and took them for a walk together they all walked side by side although the male age 2 kept turning round and looking at the pup unsure about it. We got to the park where they don't normally go so it was neutral grounds, the 2 female collies were let off leads to run around with the pup and they were all running around nicely although the female age 4 did growl at the pup because he jumped on her.
We got back home and put pup back in his crate with water and food in the living room so he would be safe and so wouldn't annoy the other dogs. The pup is so big and bouncy and just wants to play constantly wont sleep just cries and barks and tries to dig his way out of crate trying to get to other dogs. The female age 4 has started laying down by the crate and growling at the pup, and the other female and male lay in the kitchen which is some what normal. When dogs are outside in the garden the pup is so relaxed and just a pup but as soon as he sees the other 3 he goes crazy just wants to get to them.
I thought i cant keep puppy in crate forever he will have to get to know the other 3 sometime and he doesn't like crate that much, i only put him in the crate for him to get use to his new surroundings and for the dogs to get use to him and avoiding hurting him.
So we put 2 dogs away in another room and let pup out in living room with our friendliest female age 3 and i think she may have seen the pups toys i dint no but she was acting strange and getting all Territorial over something she usually wants to play with anyone and anything. she started growling at the pup only because he was crying and struggling to get to her and she was staying away from him i thought maybe best out in garden more room for her to feel that she not trapped in a room with this pup, soon as they got in the garden the female was running around doing her usual thing loves being outdoors and the pup was just sniffing around he went up to the female and hit her with his paw and she attacked him, she had a hold of his face and wouldn't let go shaking him, the pup yelped and ran away in the house, such a wee shame. I shouted at the female NO don't you do that again and she showed her teeth at me too then i left her in the garden and went seen to pup he was ok thankfully.
I was at the end of my wit the pup has been crying and barking everytime he goes in that crate he will not settle when we walk out a room he barks really loud for his age infact! So we let him out and he just keeps going for the dogs. So my partner decided to take pup out with alpha female age 4 to park they walked side by side no problems got back home and thought i'll try have pup in living room out with other dogs on lead and get him to lay down and it took a hour for him to lay down and calm he just wanted the other dogs he started biting and chewing his lead and whining but eventually got him settled and he was laying down next to the female dog no complaints but he started getting too close again and she was growling, the other male still lay in the kitchen and the other female wouldnt come through to living room because the pup was there.
Its been 1 long hard day!!
Is there any advice? i just want to be able to have all dogs get along, especially the male age 2 he is unsure of the pup and snaps but the dogs only attack the pup when he gets too close. will my dogs get use to the pup? baring in mind my dogs were all pups and one stage too and i had to introduce them to each other at one stage but it was nothing compared to this.
What do i do? how do i get them to get along? and how do i stop the pup jumping and annoying the others please help

Pytanie #11:

Should I feel guilty for dating someone else?

My boyfriend of 6 months and I broke up because he felt that our relationship went long-distance over summer (I'm in University and live in San Diego over summer; he just graduated and works full-time in Los Angeles). I work on campus in Los Angeles 3-4 days a week, and go home for the other 3-4 days. So really, I've been back and forth all summer. Other than these 2.5 summer months, we see each other nearly every other day, if not more. I was NOT looking to break up, nor did I think that "long-distance" would hurt our relationship as much as he clearly thought it did (even though I've practically been in Los Angeles all summer).

He ended up sealing the breakup by text message while I was riding the train home to San Diego.

Now that I'm back in University, we've been seeing each other again (including a few late night rendezvous), in what I presumed to be a non-relationship situation. Just a few days ago, he introduced me as his girlfriend to a group of his friends, leaving me rather confused.

I've become attracted to someone else in the meantime, who doesn't seem to reflect my ex's idea of what a "long-distance" relationship consists of, but I think things would work out with either of them in the long run. At the same time, I'm cautious to get in a relationship with the new guy, as I've known him for far less time than the ex.

The new guy has been flirting, while still showing me that he's serious about what the relationship could be. We both feel reluctant to jump into anything, as we both are familiar with my ex (he's friends with him, and knows of our little conundrum).

I am not a cheater, nor would I ever date someone that I know has a history of cheating. I'm rather confused as to what this relationship means, if anything. Your input would be GREATLY appreciated. Thanks.

Pytanie #12:

what is with all this "the scientist say it so it must be true" stuff i keep hearing?

i back a evolutionist (read a dictionary, "evolutionist" has been a word since before 1993), into a corner while asking him about radiometric dating, he said he was really smart on the matter, so i was asking him questions about how to solve for short term radiometric half-lives, if you do not have the initial starting period or the half life. he said it was impossible unless you were able to measure it over x amount of time. and told me that through his knowledge, it is impossible to date big rocks like uranium 238 and other long period ones...

but he said that it HAS to be possible to accurately date them that way because "scientist say it is true".

if scientist say "jump off a cliff, it is good for your health" i am positive millions of people will try it. i will not be one of them.
it is strange how scientist with a PhD say this is true, but when a group of scientist with a PhD on the SAME SUBJECT reject it, they are booted...
"radiometric dating is a remarkably reliable approach to estimating the age of minerals"

according to studies done by Standford university and other scientist, the rate of decay is not constant... it is affected by the amount of solar radiation and is affected on a timescale of 33 days.

Pytanie #13:

Is it bad to go out with a guy 2 weeks after breaking from a 2 year relationship?

My EX and I met in 2006 and at the time he was in a relationship that was pretty much going through a lot of bad. We were just friends for about 3 months and then feelings started getting involved and one thing led to another. We started seeing each other on a different level despite of his gf AND I know I was wrong or we know we were wrong.

Now after 2 years he left her and came with me; which didn’t last long because he just jumped from one relationship to another. He cheated on me with her so I left him. After months of him apologizing and saying he realized what a HUGE mistake he made, we agreed to try again; this was in August of 2008. We lived together for 2 years and it was always an issue of him lying about different girls; these were old friends but still, why lie?. Anyway after 2 years and so many incidents I didn’t trust and decided to go in his phone. Well I found some pictures and emails from him and a girl from face book that I felt like he was talking to. I asked him many times was he and of course he denied it.

Well I decided to pack my things and take me and my son away from this mess. I was tired. We had been talking about marriage and all. He has 3 beautiful daughters and I love them the same as I love my son. In the mean time of me packing and looking for a place, my ex decided to cuss my son out for defending himself when his daughter hit him. Well that made my move a little quicker. I left two weeks ago, now we’re not longer living together.

I just want to get over this. I am tired of feeling depressed and feel that going out may help. Any suggestions??
I am not pursuing a relationship and will NEVER live with a man unless we're married. I am not interested in sex or a relationship just to have fun and meet new people.

Pytanie #14:

when did you first feel your baby move and what does it feel like?

i am 20 weeks and 2 days and idk for sure if i have felt my baby move or not. from my ultra sound the baby has very big feet and long legs just like his father so i would think that i would have felt him by now. some times i have hat gassy feeling ot my stomach will jump or squirm and such but idk if that is it and i just would like to know when every one else felt their baby move and what they perceived it to feel like.
when my baby finally does move for real i will FOR SURE know that is what it is right?

Pytanie #15:

New Horse :D && Moving. . . ?

I had a horse a few months ago as like a share horse kind of thing, and he stayed at my trainers barn and the person i was sharing my horse with ended up fully buying him from me. It has been 4 months and i have just been riding the horses that my trainer owns for lessons. (I have been riding for 8 years, but i continue to take lessons, just to improve) I am moving soon I am staying in the same state, but i am moving a bit more south, but it is just a 2 hour drive from my old house. My new house has 30 something acres and my uncle owns a building company and he promised to have a barn built there!! My dad said i could have 2 horses because my mom also rides. (I have been riding longer then her!) So i need a COMPLETE tack list. EVERYTHING you can possibly think of!! The more tack you list the better chance you have to get best answer. ALSO, I have found 2 horses that i think are perfect to buy.

1st horse:
Breed: Oldenburg
Height: 17"1 hh
Weight: I have no idea but he looks *very* healthy
Disciplines: Hunter/Jumper, English Pleasure, Western Pleasure. (Also he does Barrel Racing, I don't know what theta would be classified under)
Age: 7 (Not green at all)

2nd Horse:
Breed: Oldenburg (both are geldings)
Age: 9 (also not green, at all)
Height: 17"3 (or 17"2) I forgot.
Weight: Also don't now but looks healthy
Disciplines: Hunter/Jumper, and English Pleasure.

What do you think? Do you think these are good choices? I don't have any pictures...
I am 15, and my old horse was a thoroughbred and 16"3 (I think).
My mom says she does not care she just has to be able to Jump with her horse.
I think i would make the first horse mine an the other my moms because i like to ride western sometimes too.
Opinions? & Tack List!!

Pytanie #16:

Painful Knee after Jumping into pool and hitting on a step, Any ideas?

I was in my house pool , and I asked my friend to throw the basketball to me, while I was in the air ( we were performing trick shots ) I was jumping from about 2 feet above the water and then in the air 3 feet off the water . Well he had thrown it short so i had to jump towards the steps and when I landed in the water , My left knee hit the step ( quite hard ) . It hurt for about 5 minutes and then it felt abit better so i stood up, i could stand with straight , but could not put much pressure on left leg. I can bend it while sitting down but when i stand up and bend it (like going up and down stairs) its hurts quite alot. i can put light pressure on it with my hand but cannot put alot of pressure on it. not long after i hurt it. a little lump had formed on my knee, when you look down on it, it is whiter than the rest of my skin.

I want to know if its just bruised etc ( there is no bruise there yet , it happened 6 hours ago) , and what should I do to heal it .
Thankyou for who ever answers :)

Pytanie #17:

Please read and critique: Does this interest you?

“Benji, he’s over—”
“I see him.” Mr. Wolff cut across Ms. Hallman, sliding two bullets into his rifle and adjusting his glasses. After he had reloaded, he flicked the handle upwards, causing the barrel to interlock with the rest of the gun. There was a ‘click’ as he turned off the safety, raising the rifle and readying himself to aim. The Dark was running as fast as he could, though no creature on this planet could outrun Benjamin Wolff’s bullet.
A loud ‘crack’ cut through the peaceful sounds of Indian nature—and a distant cry was heard as the Dark fell to the ground, clutching his right leg. Benjamin tucked his glasses back into the pouch on his khaki vest, swinging the rifle by its strap onto his back. Two of the men had already ran out and hoisted the Dark onto his feet, dragging him back over to Mr. Wolff, who Abraham was moving towards, Winnie holding a blood-soaked rag to his sliced neck.
“Is this the one, then, brother?!” he cried, face red with anger. “By god, I would have killed him!”
His elevated heart rate made the blood flow faster.
“Please, Abraham, you must calm down!” cried Winnie, wringing her hands with anguish.
The two Indian men shoved the Dark into the dirt, at Benjamin’s feet. His eyes didn’t leave the ground for some time, and all was quiet. But slowly, the Dark raised his head, grinning a yellow-toothed grin at Benjamin, who was evidently disgusted.
“Didn’t mummy ever tell you…” he wiped blood from his hand onto his face. “Don’t play with guns!”
“You miserable little—!”Abraham leapt forward suddenly, landing a kick in the Dark’s side. Benjamin held his brother back, but for once his abnormal strength met his match; for Abraham had also inherited this characteristic from his father, and was able to shake Benjamin off.
“No, she didn’t!” Abraham barked; face red as a beet, blood streaming down his neck as he landed another kick. “She wasn’t bloody around long enough to WARN US!” With that, he pulled his revolver on the Dark, eyes raging with fire and stone glowing as bright as a spotlight. “Now sit still so I can kill you properly!”
This was the moment that the children, huddled together with Ms. Hallman, Winnie, and the dogs, discovered the contrast of Abraham and his older brother’s character. Abraham, though kind, was quick-tempered, awkward, and quick to draw to conclusions. Kelsie would describe him as stubborn. Benjamin, on the other hand, was just as kind, harder to upset, sly, and fox-like. This seemed to be about right, for Abraham was in his early fifties while Benjamin was close to being seventy—and with age comes certain wisdom.
“No, Abraham!” yelled Mr. Wolff, throwing his arms over his younger brother; but Abraham overpowered his brother again, sending him onto his back.
“Kelsie!” cried Ms. Hallman as the young girl moved swiftly forward, an unusual burst of confidence filling her soul.
She began to run, suddenly jumping into the air—and, the sunlight shining in the sky brightly, she morphed into her second form.
She barked as loud as she could, baring her teeth at both the dumbstruck Abraham and the sneering Dark. The evil man was manipulating Abraham’s behavior; she could feel the darkness emitting from him, dripping from his pores. He was enjoying this violence, and Kelsie could tell.
There were tears in Abraham’s eyes as he lowered his revolver, falling to his knees. “The...the white wolf…she’s…so…so beautiful.”

Pytanie #18:

How often can you poultice a horse's leg? After every workout?

Would it hurt them? I use a non-medicated, all natrual poultice (Finishline Kool out Clay). Im talking about after every lesson? I get lessons twice a week, and we do flat work and jumping about 2'6 courses that is an hour long.
But would it hurt the horse?

Pytanie #19:

Why do people pretend like they don't see you?

Am I so invincible ?

Here is my story:

Why is it when I'm on line, in the grocery store and they open a new register, the cashier says "I'll take the next order" I'm next in line and four people jump on line before I get there. How can I stop this?

Here is my second story:

Why when I am waiting for a parking spot when someone is pulling out, why does the person coming down the same isle the opposite direction pull into the space when I was waiting there longer and they act like they didn't even do anything wrong like I wasn't there.

-Abstraction Shopper

Pytanie #20:

What can I do about my Betta's torn fin?

Hi, I got a male betta fish at least three weeks ago. His name is Sweeney. He is very happy and healthy. He is TEMPORARILY being kept in a one gallon bowl. (Please do not go on about how a betta needs 2+ gallons. I know.) For the time I have had him, he has blown at least three or more bubble nests larger than my hand, like I said, he's happy where he is. I do weekly 100% water changes, and today I had to change his water and had an accident. Because he refuses to be scooped up in a cup, and becomes very nervous when I do so, I have to gently pour him from his bowl into his net. When I was about to pour him into it, unexpectedly, he jumped out of the bowl and into the sink, which was what I was working over/ in. I had purposely put the cover over the drain in case if something like this happened so the fish would still have water to stay alive, I thought it never really happen because I'm extremely careful when handling fish. Because I had trouble getting him out of the sink, my sister helped and got him out carefully (her hands were clean of course) I filled a clean plastic cup with the old bowl water and put him in. He swum around like everything was fine, but was breathing heavily. I gave him about an hour to himself, so he could relax a bit and calm down, because of stress. After, I took him out of his plastic cup and put him in the net. The plastic cover the net came in from is called Marina Fish Net for saltwater and freshwater fish; non-toxic. Its a soft net, I'm not sure if its not soft enough, because when I had released Sweeney into his clean bowl, I noticed his fin was torn, and the piece where it had been torn was hanging from his fin. I'll post a picture just in case. Unfortunately, I'm unable to get anything to help his fin because of money issues. :( So I'd really appreciate any help I can get to help it heal. I feel terrible that this had happened. :( :( :( Right now, Sweeney is swimming around like he usually does, like nothings wrong. He flares fine, his gills are still healthy, and it looks like he has a few bubble nest bubbles at the surface of the bowl. The edges of this bottom fin are ragged and jagged. (Blame Wal-mart.) and are miraciously growing back, so do you think his torn fin will grow back too? Advice is welcome. I apologize for making this so long and drawn out! Thank you so much!

Pictures:
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For the first one, if you look near the end of the tail, there's that little piece of fin that was sticking out that I was talking about earlier. You can also see where it had ripped in the second one.

Pytanie #21:

Do you like the beginning of my new book?

What hurts us makes us stronger right?
Why do I feel so powerless?

I sat in the old, abandoned coffee shop down Burberry Lane, waiting for the love of my life to walk through the old, wooden door. As I sat I thought about how my life would be five years from now: Would I be married? Would I have kids? Would I still be alive? As simple as these questions were, they still haunted me in my thoughts, and in my dreams. I didn't want to face those questions right now, while my life was still easy.

My heart all but stopped beating when I saw Daniel Greco standing in the doorway. I ran to greet him, I jumped up in his arms and he caught me. I felt the happiest I had been in days, but his normally extraordinary, perfect face seemed to be missing something. Like a kid that had just been told that their puppy had run away.

He carried me over to one of the tables and placed me in a chair. I ran my hands through his long blonde hair, and brushed his bangs out of his eyes. He looked deeply into my brown eyes for one long minutes before he said he had to go. I didn't want him to leave, after all he had just got here.

“Why do you have to leave so soon?” I wondered, “You just arrived.” He didn't answer but he looked worn out so I gave him a break. I laced my fingers through his and stood on my toes to give him a goodbye kiss. I could tell something was bothering him. But I also knew he wouldn't want to tell me. Daniel always had been a keep-to-himself kind of person, except when he was around me. Which was why it bothered me that he was keeping something from me.

Let me know what you think: Is it good, bad, does it need work.
Im not afraid of critic so if you don't like something, tell me

Thanks,
K'lee

Pytanie #22:

Jokes for fun: What is your opinion about Bhola? Is he funniest guy?

Pappu, while filling up a form: Dad, what should I write against mother tongue.?
Bhola: Very long!

*

Frog: Tumhare paas dimaag nahin hai. ( You don't have a brain)
Bhola: Hai. (I have)
Frog: Nahin hai. (you don't have)
Bhola: Hai. (I have)
Frog: Nahin hai and jumps into the well. ( You don't have and Frog jumps into the well)
Bhola: Isme suicide karne waali kya baat thi.? (What was their to commit suicide in this?)

*

Bhola: I kiss my wife everyday before leaving for office, what about u?
Pyarelal: Me too, after u leave.

*

Q: How do you recognize Bhola's son, Pappu, in School?
A: He is the one who erases the books when the teacher erases the board.

*

Bhola standing on platform suddenly jumps on the railway track.
Pyarelal: Bhola u'll die.
Bhola: U'll die bcoz haven't u heard train is coming on platform?

*

Pyarelal: Name the 3 fastest means of communication.
Bhola: Telephone, Television, Tell-a-woman

*

Bhola: I'm a proud father. My son is in medical college.
Pyarelal: What's he studying?"
Bhola: He's not studying, they are studying him!

*

What's Ford?
Bhola: Gaadi.
What's Oxford?
Bhola: So simple, Bail Gaadi (Bull Cart)

*

Pyarelal sent sms to Bhola: Bhejnewala mahan, padhnewala gadha. (one who says is great and who is reads is a donkey)
Bhola got angry and replied: Bhejnewala gadha, padhnewala mahan. (one who says is donkey and one who reads is great)

*

Bhola: My dad was an extremely brave man. He once entered a lion's cage.
Pyarelal: He probably got a lot of applause when he got out.
Bhola: I didn't say he got out.

*

Bhola (reading from book of facts): "Do you know that every time I breathe a man dies?"
Pyarelal: "Why don't you use a mouth wash?"

Pytanie #23:

Jokes for laugh: When Amitabh Bachchan became driver?

This is when Amitabh Bachan got fit after his long ilness.....

one fine morning he told his drvier "Arre bhai aaj Gaadi hum chalayenge.., tum peechhe baito". (Today I will drive the car, you sit at the back seat)

driver, "Par saab aapki tabyat?.." (But sir, what about your heath)

amitabh "Aree meri tabyat thik ho gayi he, I am fit and fine...kya dance karke dikhau, dialogue, fighting kare dikhau.....Hain" (Now I am fine, do you want me to dance, or deliver dialogue, or perform some action scene?)

Ok then he starts driving the car very fast....zoooooooooom

breaks one red signal...

breaks second red signal....

breaks on more red signal...

Then a traffic hawaldar (Constable) stops the car, tells the car to be sided to the road..

Tells the driver to come out... "Chalo liscence dikhao,puc, gaadi ke kagjaaat..." (Common, show license, vehicle papers etc)

Sees amitabh "are Amitabh Bachhan?!!!" (Oh Amitabh Bachchan?!!!!) he is very suprised to see him....

Then he quickly on wireless calls his senior officers....

Constable: "Sir, aap jaldi yaha aye naake par..." (Sir please come here fast)

Officer: "KYun kya hua??" (why what happened)

Constable:"Sir ek gaadi ne signal toda he aur maine us gaadi ko side me rakha he" (One car has jumped traffic signals, I have stopped the car)

Officer: "To phir?" (So?)

Constable:"SIr, Us gaadi ka maalik bahut bada aadmi he sir .... mein uska challan nahi phaad sakta aap khud yaha aiye .., ho sake to SSP ko bhee layen" (The owner of that car is a very big man, I cannot give ticket to him, if possible bring along SSP too.)

Officer: "KON MAALIK HE US GAADI KA??" (Why who is the owner of the car?)

constable : "WOH TO PATA NAHI SIR PAR USNE NE HE NA SIR ... AMITABH BACHHAN KO DRIVER RAKHA HE....". (That I don't know sir, but he has kept Amithabh Bachchan as driver.)
Amitabh Bachchan is superstar of Hindi Cinema ruling Hindi cinema for decades now.

Pytanie #24:

I have a physics question?

If a flea can jump straight up to a height of 0.460 m, what is its initial speed as it leaves the ground?
__________m/s

How long is it in the air?
__________sec

Pytanie #25:

Pacquiao the greatest boxer ever lived and not Robinson?

These are my reasons 1.Compare 1940's athletes against 21st century athletes in all sports, chess
basketball, baseball, marathon, swimming, track and field, shotput, javelin, long jump, weightlifting, etc. all records had been broken, is boxing an exception??? These are statistical evidence, athletes now are a mile ahead against past athletes 2. Assuming boxers before are as skilled as boxers today will Sugar Ray Robinson defeat a champion, 3 division weight class higher than him in just 2 rounds? This is what Pacquiao did to Hatton...So stop living from the past and open your mind these are statistical evidence...I don't think Robinson could even beat Cotto, Hatton or Clottey....
I am willing to bet my life on this...Robinson has no chance on beating Pacquiao
Hairy Dude, yours is purely instinct, mine is mathematical evidence.. By the way I'm a sports bettor, and seldomly miss, I've use to turn my $20 to $1,500 in just one day...Ask bet365.com ... I think I've got a good decision making ability
I have a plus $3,000 in pinnaclesports.com in a span of 1year...I've never bet a huge amount that I lose...So this one I am definitely sure Robinson has no chance at all...
Dewey, I know you are a die hard Mayweather fan , I don't even think Robinson could beat Mayweather honestly...

Pytanie #26:

Does the bible speak of cheating BF's. How do you forgive a cheater?

What does the bible say about cheating when you're not married and how would you go about dealing with that person?

I need some advice. I've posted this before but I am just trying to get many opinions.... I don't want to block out something that may be from God. I know that after you read it you'll say "what?!?! from God?!?!. I just believe that God can change people if they want to be changed. But I just need an honest christian opinion and if you've been through this please share your story.
My story is below:

Please do not judge me!!

My EX and I met in 2006 and at the time he was in a relationship that was pretty much going through a lot of bad. We were just friends for about 3 months and then feelings started getting involved and one thing led to another. We started seeing each other on a different level despite of his gf AND I know I was wrong or we know we were wrong.

Now after 2 years he left her and came with me; which didn’t last long because he just jumped from one relationship to another. He cheated on me with her so I left him. After months of him apologizing and saying he realized what a HUGE mistake he made, we agreed to try again; this was in August of 2008. We lived together for 2 years and it was always an issue of him lying about different girls; these were old friends but still, why lie?. Anyway after 2 years and so many incidents I didn’t trust and decided to go in his phone. Well I found some pictures and emails from him and a girl from face book that I felt like he was talking to. I asked him many times was he and of course he denied it.

Well I decided to pack my things and take him and my son away from this mess. I was tired. We had been talking about marriage and all. He has 3 beautiful daughters and I love them the same as I love my son. In the mean time of me packing and looking for a place, my ex decided to cuss my son out for defending himself when his daughter hit him. Well that made my move a little quicker.

I left a week ago and after a week of not talking to him and seeing him I realize how much I miss him. I got weak yesterday and went to see him and I know that was a big mistake. We had been going back in forth about me needing time to heal and also my son and that I didn’t want to be with him at this time.

I am just wondering if God can change a person who has such a problem??? I want my family back. I miss them so much. But I know I must heal and not go in the same way I left and also that my son has to heal as well. I also know that we both must walk with God for a change to be done and stay that way if we want this to work, we both were raised Christians but have both backed away for different reasons. Do you think it's worth a shot?? More of me is saying you gave him another chance and he blew it; although we were living in sin. And the other small part is saying "Maybe he's serous; but I don't see how I will ever trust him again. It would take GOD.
We're not living together. I left him.

Pytanie #27:

Do most people that cheat and are left by their significant other; realize what they've lost and change?

Please do not judge me!!

My EX and I met in 2006 and at the time he was in a relationship that was pretty much going through a lot of bad. We were just friends for about 3 months and then feelings started getting involved and one thing led to another. We started seeing each other on a different level despite of his gf AND I know I was wrong or we know we were wrong.

Now after 2 years he left her and came with me; which didn’t last long because he just jumped from one relationship to another. He cheated on me with her so I left him. After months of him apologizing and saying he realized what a HUGE mistake he made, we agreed to try again; this was in August of 2008. We lived together for 2 years and it was always an issue of him lying about different girls; these were old friends but still, why lie?. Anyway after 2 years and so many incidents I didn’t trust and decided to go in his phone. Well I found some pictures and emails from him and a girl from face book that I felt like he was talking to. I asked him many times was he and of course he denied it.

Well I decided to pack my things and take him and my son away from this mess. I was tired. We had been talking about marriage and all. He has 3 beautiful daughters and I love them the same as I love my son. In the mean time of me packing and looking for a place, my ex decided to cuss my son out for defending himself when his daughter hit him. Well that made my move a little quicker.

I left a week ago and after a week of not talking to him and seeing him I realize how much I miss him. I got weak yesterday and went to see him and I know that was a big mistake. We had been going back in forth about me needing time to heal and also my son and that I didn’t want to be with him at this time.

I am just wondering if God can change a person who has such a problem??? I want my family back. I miss them so much. But I know I must heal and not go in the same way I left and also that my son has to heal as well. I also know that we both must walk with God for a change to be done and stay that way if we want this to work, we both were raised Christians but have both backed away for different reasons; Any opinions???

*** Before I left my mom kept telling me that I would have to leave for him to change*** Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this before...
I was thinking me leaving him after all these years will give him reason to change?

Pytanie #28:

Can GOD change a cheating man? Has anyone left and went back afte being cheated on repeatedly?

Please do not judge me!!

My EX and I met in 2006 and at the time he was in a relationship that was pretty much going through a lot of bad. We were just friends for about 3 months and then feelings started getting involved and one thing led to another. We started seeing each other on a different level despite of his gf AND I know I was wrong or we know we were wrong.

Now after 2 years he left her and came with me; which didn’t last long because he just jumped from one relationship to another. He cheated on me with her so I left him. After months of him apologizing and saying he realized what a HUGE mistake he made, we agreed to try again; this was in August of 2008. We lived together for 2 years and it was always an issue of him lying about different girls; these were old friends but still, why lie?. Anyway after 2 years and so many incidents I didn’t trust and decided to go in his phone. Well I found some pictures and emails from him and a girl from face book that I felt like he was talking to. I asked him many times was he and of course he denied it.

Well I decided to pack my things and take him and my son away from this mess. I was tired. We had been talking about marriage and all. He has 3 beautiful daughters and I love them the same as I love my son. In the mean time of me packing and looking for a place, my ex decided to cuss my son out for defending himself when his daughter hit him. Well that made my move a little quicker.

I left a week ago and after a week of not talking to him and seeing him I realize how much I miss him. I got weak yesterday and went to see him and I know that was a big mistake. We had been going back in forth about me needing time to heal and also my son and that I didn’t want to be with him at this time.

I am just wondering if God can change a person who has such a problem??? I want my family back. I miss them so much. But I know I must heal and not go in the same way I left and also that my son has to heal as well. I also know that we both must walk with God for a change to be done and stay that way if we want this to work, we both were raised Christians but have both backed away for different reasons; Any opinions???

Pytanie #29:

Can GOD change a cheating man?? Has anyone left and went back to a man that cheated repeatdily?

Please do not judge me!!

My EX and I met in 2006 and at the time he was in a relationship that was pretty much going through a lot of bad. We were just friends for about 3 months and then feelings started getting involved and one thing led to another. We started seeing each other on a different level despite of his gf AND I know I was wrong or we know we were wrong.

Now after 2 years he left her and came with me; which didn’t last long because he just jumped from one relationship to another. He cheated on me with her so I left him. After months of him apologizing and saying he realized what a HUGE mistake he made, we agreed to try again; this was in August of 2008. We lived together for 2 years and it was always an issue of him lying about different girls; these were old friends but still, why lie?. Anyway after 2 years and so many incidents I didn’t trust and decided to go in his phone. Well I found some pictures and emails from him and a girl from face book that I felt like he was talking to. I asked him many times was he and of course he denied it.

Well I decided to pack my things and take him and my son away from this mess. I was tired. We had been talking about marriage and all. He has 3 beautiful daughters and I love them the same as I love my son. In the mean time of me packing and looking for a place, my ex decided to cuss my son out for defending himself when his daughter hit him. Well that made my move a little quicker.

I left a week ago and after a week of not talking to him and seeing him I realize how much I miss him. I got weak yesterday and went to see him and I know that was a big mistake. We had been going back in forth about me needing time to heal and also my son and that I didn’t want to be with him at this time.

I am just wondering if God can change a person who has such a problem??? I want my family back. I miss them so much. But I know I must heal and not go in the same way I left and also that my son has to heal as well. I also know that we both must walk with God for a change to be done and stay that way if we want this to work, we both were raised Christians but have both backed away for different reasons; Any opinions???
I must add that this girl he swears he's never met and he stopped all contact with her because he realized he was making a huge mistake, but with all his lying idk what to believe.

Pytanie #30:

How to deter a cat from climbing up people's legs?

I've got a cat who is roughly about 8 months old. We've had her for 2 1/2 months, and she is very sweet and loving most of the time. The only really bad behavior she has is she likes to jump onto our legs and hang on, or try to climb them. She seems to realize this is only OK to do while we're wearing long pants, but it still needs to be discouraged.

Does anyone know a good way to punish a kitty for doing something like this? I'm not interested in being cruel or mean to her. She's only trying to play; I just need a way to let her know that we want her to stop doing that.

I've never had to teach a cat things before- but I'll bet it's not an easy thing to do.
Umm, alright. If anyone else's advice is to get rid of my kitty...

Err, thanks, but that's not really the kind of help I'm looking for. I happen to love my little one.

Pytanie #31:

What's the name of this Batman NES game?

Hello guys,

Long time ago, when I was a kid, I used to play NES.

I usually played a Batman game (it was a platform game), that the Batman was shrinked and the story was going in a house. In some chapters, you were going down the stairs and hunt down some zombie like creatures. In an another chapter, you were in the kitchen and jump on some plates.
In the last boss, a big head was sending you cannon balls from his eyes.

These are the things that I can remember for now. I maybe mistaken in these details.

So, what was the name of this NES game?

Thanks...

Pytanie #32:

Kind of a long story but please read?

I'm 16 if that helps.

My gf and I were at this party my mom was hosting, and my gf told me she needed to talk to me privately. So we went up to my room, then she shut the door, jumped in my arms and said lets do it here. I asked if she had a condom and she didn't. So I told her I'm not ever having unprotected sex at my age and put her down.

At that my mom came up to check on us, and said, "Myles, you're not doing anything you shouldn't be doing, right?"

I passed out. When I woke up, everyone at the party had gone home, except for my gf, who was waiting for me downstairs. I told her to go home and I'll talk to her later.

What's your opinion on this situation? Did I do the right thing?

Pytanie #33:

Please tell me which of these two jokes I heard this evening is the funnier of both. bAlso, can you ...?

... Can you please also rate them each with a scale of one to ten with ten being funnier. Thank you!!

JOKE # 1:

A blonde married woman and a nice-looking man, also married, found themselves mistakenly assigned to the same sleeper car on a train ride across the country. The management could not rectify matters until the next day, so both the married woman and married man reluctantly had no choice but to share the sleeper car the first evening of the trip. The woman slept on the lower berth, with the man on the upper. Not too long after they turned the lights off, the man was a bit chilly and rather than go through the embarrassment of crawling over the woman on the lower berth, he leaned over the top of the upper berth and asked the woman if she wouldn't mind opening the closet and handing him an extra blanket. The married woman, too tired to move asked, "Well, we are married, so can we pretend just for tonight that we are married to EACH OTHER?" The married man couldn't believe his ears and after a moment eagerly agreed. "Great, honey," the married woman replied, "then go get your own f**kin' blanket !!" Annoyed, the married man's retort was a long, loud, and stinky fart!

JOKE # 2 :

A man walks into a bar just as the 11 O'Clock news was coming on. He noticed a young pretty blonde sitting at the bar watching the news, which was covering a suicidal guy standing on the 20th story ledge of a building, screaming he was going to jump. The man saw this as a good opportunity to speak with the pretty blonde so he asked her, "Hey, I'll bet you $5 the poor man jumps." The blonde replied, "OK, you're on since I say he doesn't." They sat together watching the news and, sadly, the suicidal man did jump to his death. The blonde sighed and started to get the $5 out of her purse when the guy told her he couldn't conscientiously take her money since this newscast was a repeat of what he saw earlier right after the 5 O'Clock news was on. "Oh,no," the blonde said, "I saw the 5 PM news also." Confused, the young guy asked her,"Gee, if you had seen it earlier today just like I did, then how could you have made that bet with me??!" Upon which the blonde explained, "Yes, I did see it this afternoon, but I accepted the bet with you since I didn't think that poor guy would have the guts to do it again." Now it was the guys turn to sigh as he took the blonde's money and strolled out of the bar.

Pytanie #34:

As allah's greatest prophet, why did Muhammad get weak at the knees during the eclipse?

Narrated Abu Musa: The sun eclipsed and the Prophet jumped up, being terrified that it might be the Hour (i.e. Day of Judgment). He went to the Mosque and offered the prayer with the longest Qiyam, bowing and prostration that I had ever seen him doing.


BUT...see what Jesus (Isa) DID !!!


Matthew 8:25-27 25 Then His disciples came to Him and awoke Him, saying, “Lord, save us! We are perishing!” 26 But He said to them, “Why are you fearful, O you of little faith?” Then He arose and rebuked the winds and the sea, and there was a great calm. 27 So the men marveled, saying, “Who can this be, that even the winds and the sea obey Him?”


What a show of COURAGE !
Why did Jesus (a mere mini prophet) show such great courage & power while the greatest prophet's balls shrank?
unless...muhammad was a false prophet.

Pytanie #35:

Should I have broken up with him?

I have been seeing this guy for a short time, but it was very intense. He introduced me to his family on the second date, he talked about taking care of me, having children, ect. Out of the blue, he stopped talking to me, when I asked why he said he "needed to slow down." He did not communicate this to me for two weeks. I went for two weeks thinking I had done something wrong, so I told him I didn't want to see him anymore.

I moved states and he asked if he could come see me. I said that would be okay. We planned it for this weekend and five days before he cancels cause he has a deal that needs to go through at work. He wanted to see me the next weekend, but I told him I think it's best if we don't talk anymore.

I am confused if I may have jumped the gun, or saved myself from being hurt again? I know the only person who truly knows is me and him, but I want someone's opinion on this. I haven't felt this way about anyone in a long time, but the past year and half has been really hard for me and I keep getting disappointed in all aspects of life.

Pytanie #36:

What will be the effect of Obama's health care bill upon the salary of doctors?

Here me out before you jump to any conclusions. I'm currently a high school senior with a long enduring road ahead of me. I want to become a doctor because I truly honestly believe that saving lives is one of the greatest thing you can do for man kind. However, malpractice rates seem to be increasing by the day and med school cost is extremely expensive.
Not to mention the career is a 12+ year commitment (I'm very much interested in becoming an anesthesiologist) and after all that hard work I dont want to end up making the same amount as any moe, dick and larry.

So my question is what will the healthcare bill do the salaries of doctor's? Will the medical field still be even worth enduring 12 years for after the bill is passed?
I want true facts btw I dont want this to turn into some political forum of dems vs republicans
Wow it was a fucking spelling mistake I made at 3 am. Get over yourself.

Pytanie #37:

I need to know if this girl likes me or not shes sending strange signs?

(this might be a long story but) my mother got a new husband and his best friend has a daughter im in love with we met at one of the partys my step farther threw where we had lots of fun chasing each other around and stuff (im 13 shes 12) that was on a friday then she came overr again on that tuesday and while watching tv i noticed out the corner of my eye she was staring at me for like 5min straight like she was stuck she laughs at a lot of stuff i do because i act goofy when shes around after that last tuesday right before summer i heard she was going to canada for the summer to c her mom i was angry but had a plan to talk to her before she left but she was already gone anyway after a whole summer of waiting and talking about her every single day she finally came at another party kind of like the first one (with all my cousins etc.) but everyone kindof went off and would not shut up about us (cing that her sister said she talked about me to) anyway i finally told her i liked her and asked if she felt the same and she said she has to think about so im like wtf just happened then l8r that day after my family all went home they were still there so it was me my lil bro and her and her little sister (who is stronger than she looked) her ,,her sister and my bro all kept trying to jump me and taking my stuff and running things like that when it finally calmed down i was kinda in my room staring at my tv while it was off and noticed her at my door she was just looking at me when i finally turned at her she kindof jumped and i tried to shut my door in her face to mess with her she wouldnt let me then i told her i need some personal space and she kept saying why? also while chasing them instead of running into a room she would back up to my mothers door which was closed and just watch me coming to her. she also kinda giggled when her sister said things like if i snuck into the room she was sleeping in at night you would just hear bumps and grinds (they were spending the night) i need to know if she likes me shes sending akward signs at someone HEELP

Pytanie #38:

What are general law enforcement procedures for a parolee on the run?

I have a family member on parole who has a drug problem and fears being violated for a "Hot U.A.". He is considering going on the run but is concerned that Parole is different than simple Probation. Before release, he was told by a fellow inmate that "Jumping Parole" carries new charges such as Escape and he would be pursued as fiercely by Law Enforcement officials as if he'd ACTUALLY escaped from a State Correctional Facility. His original charges are low-level felonies.

He is well aware a warrant will be issued, but beyond that doesn't know much more. He isn't your typical Ex-Con. He's college educated, and has 2 young children. Just can't leave the reefer alone long enough to complete parole.

#1. Are U.S. Marshalls/F.B.I. involved immediately?
#2. Will "jumping parole" be considered escape and result in more charges?

Pytanie #39:

what is that sport that you use a long stick and use it to jump over the bar thing?

Pytanie #40:

Need help in training my dog (apartment living)?

My fiance and I just got a new dog from our local shelter and we live in an apartment. His name is Munchie (1yr 7mo.) and we also have another dog, Mozart (almost 1yr). We can't get Munchie to calm down at any point. He is constantly sprinting around the apartment, howling at every sound, and constantly mouths (not necessarily bite) on people and misc. objects.
We have a baby on the way in a couple months here and if we can't get him to calm down then we may have to find him another home.
We could really use some advice on making him stop sprinting around the apartment; barking/howling/whining when kenneled; mouthing people and things; getting him to stop jumping on people.

Any advice is greatly appreciated!!

Ps. Munchie is a schnauzer mix; easily stimulated by sound; loves food; does well in a kennel over night as long as a blanket is over it and he's very lovable. We have had Munchie for almost a month.

Pytanie #41:

General Physics Question?

You are the stunt director for a testosterone-laden action movie. A car drives up a ramp inclined at 10.0° above the horizontal, reaching a speed of 40.0 m/s at the end. It will jump a canyon that is 101 meters wide. The lip of the takeoff ramp is 201 meters above the floor of the canyon. (a) How long will the car take to cross the canyon? (b) What is the maximum height of the cliff on the other side so that the car lands safely? (c) What angle with the horizontal will the car's velocity make when it lands on the other side? Assume the height of the other side is the maximum value you just calculated. Express the angle as a number between −180° and +180°.

Pytanie #42:

New Puppy behavior training?

ok I need some help! This is kinda long sorry....basically theres 2 things I need help with

I have 2 small dogs that I have had for about 3 yrs...they are pretty well behaved...I didnt train them though. One male (speedy) one female (sissy) They are indoor dogs. We recently put up a fence so they are outside for a good portion of the day now...speedy doesnt like being outside so he is inside mostly...sissy loves being outside but she is CONSTANTLY barking at everything...trains (we live by the tracks so there are alot of trains,but we've lived here for a year now and she's never barked at them before), people, idk leaves? lol I dont know what to do to keep her from barking so much.

So that's the first thing, how do I train her to not bark at every little thing, I know dogs bark and I cant expect her to never bark, but this is pretty excessive.

Next, I recently got a new puppy. She is an outside dog she is about 11 weeks now....she gets along fine with the other 2 dogs, she rarely barks, but when sissy comes outside with her she is influenced to start barking right along with her...so thats annoying and needs to stop.

with the puppy (misty) I basically need to know where i should start as far as basic obedience...i should have started sooner, but i didnt :(....I have a 2 year old and misty is always so excited to see her and she jumps all over and knocks her down so some things I would like to know how to train are....
1. not to bark
2. not to jump up on you
3. stop when I tell her "no"
4. not to bite (she doesnt bite when I put my hands in her mouth or anyhting, but she nips at your heels)

I know theres a ton of websites with this stuff, but I'm kinda overwhelemed looking for a good one, so I would like to know what worked for you, and any websites or articles that you have found helpful

Pytanie #43:

what type of frog is this?? (pic included)?

i was at my cabin today, and found this little orange frog. before i explain anything, heres the pic:
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okay, now ive been going up to my cabin for as long as i can remember, and when i was younger my favorite thing to do was go looking for frogs, but ive never seen this kind of frog up there before. it was orange, as you can see in the pic, but when you got closer, it was almost a metallic orange, and and orange eyes. and if you can see, it has a kinda X pattern on its back. another thing i noticed was when it jumped, between its legs were like neon orange. and it could jump super far. it wasnt that big either, it was sitting on my thumb for a little while, so im not sure if it was a baby or a small frog. and my dad said he thought it was a left at first because it fell. im not sure if it jumped out of a tree, because there was a tree behind us, or if it just jumped and looked like it fell. any ideas as to what it was??

Pytanie #44:

TNA Impact Episode 14 Please Rate the Show (Part 2)?

Jeff Hammond w/ 3 Live Kru vs. David Young w/ Kazarian & Michael Shane
The match starts out with Young "kicking" Hammond in the head, even though the kicks were nowhere near his head. Hammond spears Young. Kazarian and Shane distracted the ref, and Kazarian kicks Hammond in the head. Konnan and Killings then distract the ref, and BG James hits a Pump Handle Slam on Young. Hammond then with an elbow drop on Young, prior to which he "revved up his engine" and "drove around the ring". Hammond makes the cover and gets the pinfall. This one wasn't pretty.

Winner: Jeff Hammond

-After the match, Shane and Kazarian jumped Hammond until 3LK made the save.

-Backstage, Dusty Rhodes is shown getting out of the backseat of his pickup. Traci asks Dusty where he'd been. Dustry tries to say he was taking care of some PPV business, when from the same door out comes Trinity adjusting her top. Trinity tells Traci not to worry, then kisses Dusty on the cheek and tells him he's pretty good for an old man. When Trinity leaves, Traci tells Dusty to wipe off his face.

-Styles joins the announce crew for the Triple Threat X Match. Styles starts to talk about his Iron Man match with Daniels, when Daniels comes out to interupt. Daniels doesn't like Styles doing commentary, as that's been his gig the past few weeks. Daniels slapped Styles. Styles jumps over the table and attacks Daniels. Security comes out to break it up.

Prime Time vs. Chris Sabin vs. Shark Boy
Before the match, Tenay told everyone that the winner of this match might be in the Ultimate X Match at the March PPV. Sabin gives SHark Boy a back body drop over the ropes to the floor. Prime Time superkicks Sabin. Prime Time nails a superplex on Sabin, with Shark Boy also executing a sunset flip on Prime Time. Shark Boy sends Sabin to the outside. Shark Boy and Prime time exchange fists, but Sabin comes off the top rope with a drop kick. Sabin with some clotheslines and then a swinging DDT on Shark Boy as well as a drop kick on Prime Time at the same time. Sabin goes up top. Prime Time pushes Sabin and crotches him. Prime Time walks the top rope and nails his hurricanrana. Shark Boy then picks up Sabin an nails his Dead Sea Drop (a flip over stunner from the rope rope). Prime Time shoves Shark Boy out of the ring and makes the cover himself for the 3 count.

Winner: Prime Time

-A video package recapping the Styles/Daniels feud airs.

-Tenay sits in the middle of an empty ring and brings in Kevin Nash via satellite from Hollywood and Jeff Jarrett via satellite from Nashville. Nash says he's going to do "15 to 20 minutes" of cardio to be ready for the match. Nash says he's not paid by the hour so he's going to try to finish the match early with his power and strength. Tenay asks Jarrett about the fact that if he uses the guitar he will be DQed and lose the title. Jarrett says it doesn't change his strategy because he beat Monty Brown with the Stroke, not a guitar. Jarrett says he will retain the belt by any means necessary. Tenay asks Nash what lit the fire in him to be so ready for this match. Nash says it's always been about the money, but the NWA Title is also something that would be a great prize. Nash says he understands Jarrett's strengths and weaknesses. Nash says he's going to bring his wife home a nice Valentine's Day Present, the NWA World Title belt. Jarrett talks about living and breathing the NWA Title. Jarrett says there is a long list of champs to live up to. He is not just going to follow in their footsteps, but he's going to advance past them. Jarrett says Nash has disrespected lots of title in his career. Tenay asks Jarrett about his strategy, where it will be the knees since Nash has had so many surgeries. Jarrett won't give away his gameplan and says he's the smartest person to ever step foot in the ring. Jarrett says you don't win championships by giving away your game plan. Nash says the title is coming home this Sunday, and Jarrett respond with "We'll see."

Pytanie #45:

Have you ever done the Standing long jump, like in PE or something? how far could you jump?

Pytanie #46:

Do I have a depression?

I am 17 years old and attending 11th grade in a german school. I recently watched a documentary about depression for a couple of minutes while looking through the TV channels during the commercials. It was a women with diagnosed depression who talked about how she felt and tuff like that.
The point is that I noticed in april or may that everyone around me seemed to be happy - just not me. I had times like that before, but when those feeling increased in the weeks after that I was quite surprised, since it never lasted for longer than a month. But I still have it now, and this just feels weird. I have problems to sleep, but whenever I can sleep as long as I want -like during weekend or vacations- as soon as I wake up I am tired again. I feel like I could sleep all day, but when I finally could, I can't. I'm also bored of pretty much everything. I used to be interested in lot of stuff, but now it just cheeses me off. Whenever I should do something -sometimes work, sometimes something that is actually nice- I've got problems with finding the power to do it somewhere. I don't have fun being with my friends, my family or anyone else. This year, instead of having the 'summer feeling' during vacation that everyone else had, I was really mad when my bff told me that we could go to Hamburg two days, when my dad wanted to go to Berlin & my mom, bro and her partner also planned a holiday. I came along, but what scared me was that I always loved to travel around and this year I just felt some sort of coldness at a former passion. I used to talk and laugh a lot, but since a couple of weeks I'm just talking and laughing because when I don't everyone keeps asking me why I am suddenly so quite, which makes me want to scream at them or just turn around and go.
A last point is that I don't have thoughts about to die directly, but I found myself looking down from high building at the streets or from a bridge down the water while trying to imagine what would happen if I would just jump. Not like seriously planning to do so, but I though like "would someone scream? would somebody notice? who would cry, who would come to my funeral, how long would it take to go on?"

Okay, that's it so far. My question is wheter this is just a blues or a serious depression. I just got sorta concerned and I don't want to be unhappy all the time. I hope that someone can give a vague answer on this question.
Thank you.

Pytanie #47:

TNA Impact Episode 12 (Rate The Show) (Part 1 of 2)?

Kid Kash & Lance Hoyt vs. Chris Sabin & Jeff Hardy
Kash and Hoyt start off attacking Sabin. Sabin lands a drop kick to Kash and Hardy fights off Hoyt. Hardy and Sabin each nail a clothesline to Kash and Hoyt. Sabin executes a suicide dive through the ropes on to Kash on the outside. Sabin then springboards off the top rope going for a crossbody on Hoyt in the ring, but Hoyt catches him and then throws him in a fall away slam. Hoyt stomps away at the fallen Sabin. Hoyt tags in Kash. Kash comes in with a big kick to the gut and then a chop. Sabin with a sunset flip out of an irish whip that Kash had sent him in for a near fall. Kash gets up and nails Sabin with a dropkick. Kash and Hoyt give Sabin a double clothesline. Kash with a big knife edge chop in the corner, as he continues to work over Sabin in the corner. Kash then lifts up sabin into a cradle suplex position, and drops him across his shoulders. Sabin starts to fight back and both men exchange right hands. Sabin comes out of it clotheslining Kash twice. Sabin with a tilt-a-whirl backbreaker. Kash is sitting on the top turnbuckle, and gets a foot to the face on Sabin to reverse the tide. Kash with a big clothesline off the top rope on to Sabin. Sabin tags in Hardy, but Hardy gets attacked from behind by Abyss. Abyss and Hardy fight on the outside to the back. Sabin works over Kash in the ring and has him pinned, but Hoyt has the ref distracted. Hoyt gives Sabin a big boot. Kash with the money maker and then the pinfall.

Winners: Kid Kash & Lance Hoyt

-Tenay announces that the match between Abyss and Jeff Hardy will be titled "Full Metal Mayhem." Tables, ladders, chairs, and anything that is metal will be legal in the match.

-Backstage there is a confrontation between DDP and Kevin Nash & Scott Hall. Hall tells DDP that he had an assignment and he blew it. DDP says nobody gives him assignments and he blew nothing. Apparently they had a mutual agreement, but DDP now wants no part of them.

Chris Candido vs. Sonny Siaki
Candido starts things off on the offensive, but not for long. Siaki with a big hip toss. Siaki charges at Candido in the corner, but Candido moves and Siaki runs into the ring post. Candido with a chop in the corner. Then a second chop in another corner. Candido with a third chop in yet another corner. Siaki comes back with some chops of his own. Siaki blocks a right hand from Candido and comes back. Siaki with a huge back body drop on Candido. Candido pokes Siaki in the eye to gain the offensive again. Candido with a big delayed vertical suplex. Candido goes up top and goes for a flying headbutt, but Siaki moves. Siaki with a back elbow followed by a clothesliine. Siaki with a neckbreaker on Candido. Siaki with a crossbody block, but Candido rolls through and gets his feet up on the ropes for leverage and gets the pinfall.

Winner: Chris Candido

-Now we are backstage in Dusty's "office." Dusty says they need to bring some new guys into TNA. Dusty gives Traci and Trinity each an assignment and they leave.

Johnny Devine w/ Scott D'Amore vs. Monty Brown
Devine attacks Brown from behind at the start to get some offense in. He rakes at Brown's eyes. Devine with a big drop kick off the top rope on Brown. Devine gives Brown some punches and a chop. Brown comes back with a huge clothesline. Brown with a big powerbomb. Petey Williams comes out to interfere. Williams jumps off the top rope, but Brown catches him. Brown puts him in press slam position and throws him to the outside on top of Bobby Roode. Brown gives Eric Young the Pounce. Devine gives Brown a poke in the eye, but ends up receiving the Pounce soon after and Brown gets the pinfall.

Winner: Monty Brown

-Scott Hall comes out and attacks Brown from behind. Team Canada and Hall team up to beat down Brown. Nash looks on from outside the ring. DDP comes out to help Brown and everyone scatters.

-Footage is shown of Jeff Jarrett defending his NWA World Title in Korea. Tenay is then in mid-ring to interview Jarrett. Out comes Jarrett. Jarrett says he's not intimidated by Nash. Nash says there is only one Intimidator in TNA, and it's him. Jarrett says when Hall and Nash came into TNA, they understood that they were there to take orders from Jarrett. Somewhere along the line they must have forgotten that and fell out of the pecking order. Tenay says he doesn't believe Nash would ever take orders from Jarrett, and Jarrett gets mad and takes the mic from Tenay. Jarrett says he and Nash go back to 1993. The crowd chants "boring." Jarrett says the fans can chant all they want, but they are living in Planet Jarrett. Jarrett says when Nash said the belt meant only more money to him, that is going to signal the downfall of Nash's career. Jarrett says the title is his life. Jarrett says he will chop Nash down to size at the PPV. Jarrett calls Hall Nash's human barstool. Jarrett tells Nash "welcome to the e
Welcome to the end of your career

Pytanie #48:

Could someone help me think of a reason on why my cat got lost?

First of all she is an outdoor - indoor cat. we let her out for 4 hours a day but separately (as in 2 in the morning and 2 at night) I have kind of an open yard so she could get out but she never does and stays in our yard or around it. and when ever we let her in we shake her box of treat and come runing then we grab her and put her in the house.

Yesterday at like 3 in the morning I woke up to go the bathroom and my cat always follows me but she didn't I looked for her then I realized my window was open (my window is kind of attached to the roof) and Looked out and I saw her on the roof I tried to call her back but she didn't come so I figured she will be back by her self.

She wasn't back!! I spend the entire day yesterday looking for her! I put couple of flyers and since I live in a townhouse I thought she might went into someones house so I asked every single house in the neighborhood and they didn't see her!

WHAT SHOULD I DO? There is a mini house on my neighbours yard and she could've jumped on there then back to the ground but it doesn't make any sense for her to just walk away!!!! I had her for 3 years and she never does that! even though one time I forgot her outside she was waiting for me meowing the next morning!!! HELP PLEASE IM CRYING MY EYES OUT AND THERE WAS A BAD STORM LAST NIGHT WHAT IF HAPPENED TO HER OR SOMEONE TOOK HER AND I HOPE SHE'S OK!!!!

Sorry if this long I'm really worried!
I called shelters and everything
she is fixed.

Pytanie #49:

Any tips for training my dog to...?

Weave through poles?

OK, so about 5 months ago I noticed my dog liked jumping through hoola hoops. To pursue this interest, I purchased an agility set. It came with a few jump, a tunnel, and weaving poles.
She was amazing at the jumps, pretty good with the tunnel, but never really got the pole trick.

Then, she was diagnosed with a hip problem. It was pretty bad, so I obviously stopped with the agility. (The agility did not cause the problem, however.)
She is on a medication and for the past 3 days she has been extremely active, boisterous, excited, and really puppy like. She's 6 years old and acting younger than she ever has. At first she would run like crazy, really fast. I didn't like it at first, because usually when she does that the next day her hip is hurting her. But, she seems to be fine for the past 3 days, and I'm really happy about that. :)

During her hip problems, she has good weeks, bad weeks, good days, and bad days. She never really had this good of a week, so I think she could be getting better. The vet said there is no cure, the medicine will only stop the pain.

ANYWAY, I started her back up with agility. NOT jumps, however, as they wouldn't be good for her hip. As long as she's in an active, running mood, I now am doing the tunnel and poles with her. She knows the tunnel well, she runs through without my guidance. The poles however, she has quite a lot of trouble. I've tried walking her through on a leash, but she hates being tugged around like that.
What else can I do to train her better?

Lastly, do you know of any other tricks that she can do that doesn't have any jumping and such in it? Thanks!

P.S She's a 6 year old, 12-15 pound Cockapoo named Misty who knows sit, lie down, stay, roll over, play dead, beg, and shake :)
Thanks for the answer! I will try the licking thing. She follows the treat but misses a weave or goes the wrong way through the poles because I don't think she really understand what she's supposed to do. I thought she was started to get it, but then it went wrong again.
Thanks again :)
Bobbie: Haha of course I know the mixes of my dog. I don't have an 'agility trainer', we just do it for fun!
Cookie: again, I'm just doing this for fun. I space out the poles a lot, so there is no hip "swishing" required. She basically just has to turn her whole body, as if running a bend, rather than her hips. So it's not at all regulation, but still fun for me and my dog.

Pytanie #50:

How to deal with insults?

i'm falling for this friend of mine that i recently started hanging out with and she has expressed interest in me too. however her best friend, who also might have feelings for her, doesn't like me because of this. she indirectly says stuff about me which i brush off as i don't want to jump to conclusions. but recently its been getting a wee bit obvious. she may be insulting me on my formspring (a website where you can ask someone questions anonymously) and she says stuff like "you have worn out your welcome". its really annoying. the best part is most of our mutual friends have known her longer and she has 10 times more friends than me. should i just back away from the girl i like?





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